Its good to see someone try to breath some life into this forum. Its been lacking for sometime.
It would seem that many members have either moved onto other forums or sit out of conversations.
I do have some comments to add to your best bang for buck mod list. Not trying to sound like a know it all
1. A COP conversion requires an aftermarket ECU. You can not run COP from the OEM ECU.
In my view, if the engine is stock and assuming it runs ok, the best bang for buck is to check / clean / replace the dizzy caps, rotors and plug leads. Fit a new set of plugs and gap correctly. Always run 98 RON fuel, this is a must. Remove any restriction in the exhaust by fitting flow through mufflers, open the air box to cooler air at the front of the car and replace the stock paper air filter with a reusable K&N type.
A link or Haltech ECU seem to be the common choice and will set you back closer to 3K$, plus the extras that usually needs to be added on. Then once you've trashed the OEM ECU, time to think about controlling the auto if fitted. Aircon, power steering assist etc. The link and Haltech can do all that but will need to be setup and tuned. The list of mods and bits needed for an aftermarket conversion usually runs on once you've bolted in an aftermmarket ECU. Like wideband O2's, wideband knock sensors, maybe flex fuel etc.. Both ECU's have a map creation model built into them. You just select to engine type from their library, tell the software where all the sensors, inj & coils are connected and it will generate a map for you. I haven't found a tuner who will do a tune for less than a grand tho. Dyno time can range from $150+ per hour. Some good news though, is that these ECU's can refine and self tune provided O2's and knock control have been setup.
There are many other pieces of info I could add / have learnt over the years, head work ideas, fitting aftermarket cams and how to dial them in. The best / only timing belt to use... but it all cost $.
Kelvin from Cartune has a wealth of knowledge too but he's been awful quite on this forum for a while.
I hope your revival of this thread helps to inspire / encourage some more constructive content for the forum as I enjoy following some of the other members projects.
Ivan